Hint for Husbands

Tuesday, November 22, 2005

Mood: irritated, annoyed, and a little hurt
Music: Heart and Soul by T'Pau

OK. Here's a hint for all the husbands out there: women like to be, at the very least, acknowledged for the sexy creatures we are when we're flirting and trying to get some lovin'. Even if you're not in the mood, guys, let her know you still think she's sexy and great and all that.

Or risk being cut off. She'll find other ways to amuse herself.

Case in point. Hubby was in a somewhat playful mood, so I responded and got all playful back, and ended up with him behind me while I was dancing. Now, we had been having fun, but I wanted more, so I'm all rubbing the back of me all up on the front of him...and getting nothing. Absolute zero response. He might as well have been having a root canal.

Wow. Talk about a slap in the face. Not even a kiss and an 'I'm tired'. Ouch.

Not an isolated incident, either. I swear the man has almost zero sex drive, while I'm somewhere in the outer stratosphere. Talk about frustrating!

But to not even give me any feedback whatsoever...that's shitty. Pretty soon, I'm just going to stop even appearing interested, because it very rarely gets me anywhere. Maybe he should write a book 'how to kill your sex life in less than 5 years'.

2 comments:

Orikinla Osinachi. said...

Must hubby always be in the mood?

But, is it normal to find a pregnant woman sexy?

Pregnant women are very sexy and I just love gazing at them, because they are quite amusing to me.

My pregnant sister inlaw was ranting, and gazing at her sitting on the table like a big bird perching on the branch of a tree was very amusing. I felt like hugging her and telling her how she looked even more attractive now than when she was not pregnant.

Sapphire's Soul said...

I don't think they always have to be in the mood, but once in a while would be nice.

And - I'm not pregnant, so that part of your comment is irrelevant here.

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